Choosing the Right Preschool: 5 Questions Every Parent Should Ask

By Jamie Smith Flatow

Choosing the right preschool is one of the most important decisions you’ll make for your child’s early education. The right environment can nurture curiosity, build confidence, and lay the groundwork for a lifelong love of learning. But with so many options — from full-day daycare programs to church-based preschools to private academies — how can you tell which one is the best fit? Asking the right questions can help you cut through the noise and focus on what really matters for your child’s development. At Ivybrook Academy, we encourage families to explore all their options and make a choice they feel confident about. Here are five essential questions to guide your decision-making.

Parent and preschooler at Ivybrook Academy during Young Author's event
1. What Is the School’s Educational Philosophy?

Every preschool has a philosophy — even if it’s not clearly stated. Some programs focus heavily on structured, teacher-led lessons, while others encourage more child-led exploration. At Ivybrook, we blend Montessori and Reggio Emilia philosophies to create a balance of independence, collaboration, and creativity. This approach allows children to explore their own interests while building a strong foundation in academic and social-emotional skills.

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2. How Are Teachers Trained and Supported?

The teacher is the heart of any classroom. The National Association for the Education of Young Children (NAEYC) emphasizes that highly trained educators are critical to delivering quality early learning experiences. Ask how teachers are trained, how often they receive professional development, and how the school supports them in delivering an exceptional program. At Ivybrook, our educators receive ongoing training in both Montessori and Reggio Emilia methods, as well as child development best practices.

3. What Is the Class Size and Teacher-to-Child Ratio?

Smaller class sizes and low ratios mean more individual attention for your child. Research from the American Academy of Pediatrics shows that these conditions lead to stronger relationships between teachers and students, supporting emotional security and learning. Ivybrook classrooms are intentionally designed with small groups so teachers can truly know each child and tailor instruction to their needs.

4. How Does the School Engage Families?

Preschool isn’t just for children — it’s an experience for the whole family. Look for a program that values open communication and invites parents to be partners in the learning journey. Ivybrook’s half-day model gives families time to connect in the afternoons, and our teachers regularly share progress updates, invite parents to special events, and suggest activities to extend learning at home.

5. How Will This School Prepare My Child for the Future?

The goal of preschool isn’t simply to get a child ready for kindergarten — it’s to prepare them for a lifetime of learning. Ask how the program develops problem-solving skills, critical thinking, and adaptability. At Ivybrook, our graduates enter kindergarten confident, curious, and ready to take on new challenges. They don’t just know their ABCs — they know how to ask questions, work with others, and see themselves as capable learners.

Making Your Decision on the Right Preschool

Choosing the right preschool takes time, research, and thoughtful questions. We encourage families to visit in person, observe the classrooms, and talk to the teachers. If you’d like to see how our approach could be the right fit for your child, we’d love to welcome you to a tour at Ivybrook Academy.

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